How To Increase Intimacy
People have this huge misconception of how to increase intimacy. They believe and practice what they see in the movies or magazines hoping they will have a life of more intimacy and pleasure. In this podcast, renowned teacher Niyaso Carter explains what Tantra and intimacy really are. She emphasized the importance of taking time. And that asking questions about how to increase intimacy can lead you to the real path to the most amazing sex.
Make your lovemaking the natural high it can be!
There is no better experience of euphoria than a good, long, sensual lovemaking session with someone you love and adore. So why is this most exquisite high not more readily accessible for more people? I teach a lot of sensual lovemaking practices, but I don’t feel...
Self Love, why and how
"Love yourself" is such a cliche catch phrase that's batted around everywhere these days. What does it even mean and how do you do it? Jamie and I dive into this topic on her radio show....
Love yourself first, fulfilling relationships will be a natural outcome
"If you want to be truly loving towards yourself, talk to yourself like you would speak to a 5-year-old child in pain." Matt Kahn If you've been following my posts, you may have noticed that the theme of many of them this year have to do with learning self-love. From...
3 Tantric Tips for More Intimacy
Improve intimacy in your sex life with these 3 simple tantric tips As Valentines Day approaches many people take stock of their relationship and that's a good thing. There is always another level of joy, sacredness and fulfillment to be found no matter how good your...
Reflections: Am I loved?
Valentine's Day is over, let's reflect and ask...Am I loved? Now that Valentine's Day - the day of romance and love has passed it's a great moment for reflection of what it brought up for us. Holidays have a way of triggering thoughts and feelings in us and this is...
Honesty is the greatest aphrodisiac!
This is true whatever kind of sex you are having, tantric sex or any other kind, but if you want to have amazing sex, truly intimate, awesome, mind-melting sex, which in essence would be my definition of tantric sex, it is even more true! You just can’t get to those...
Tantra is getting into your body and letting it teach you about the vastness of existence. You don’t even need a lover to get that.
When we listen only to our mind we are like the fish in the submarine in this picture painted by the fabulous spiritual teacher Mooji. When we drop into our hearts and into the sensations in our body we come out of the submarine and into the huge, free, blue ocean. It...
The all time best dating tip ever!
This one liner above says it so succinctly that it is almost unnecessary to say any more, but just in case you are not sure how this can be applied in down to earth, practical terms: What does it mean to run toward God? It means to run toward loving ourselves...
Practice noticing your own beauty
Yes that sound lovely but how do we do that? Treat yourself like you would a most beloved child Do this in all ways and in all circumstances and at all times Practice that today and see what happens..... Practice
Egyptian Sexual Energy Part 2: The Ankh and the Orgasm
I wanted to give you the bare bones instructions about the sexual, spiritual pratice that goes with the info in my last post. Once again, I want to affirm that you do not need any esoteric technique to have sex that takes you to God. Making divine love is in our...
Discover Tantra
This practice of loving what arises, not matter what it is, that is true Tantra. Nays
Tantra, a way home
Tantra, and love making should feel like coming home When asked the meaning of the word Tantra, most people, or at least those who have heard the word before, understand it to mean some kind of spiritual version of sex. And when they hear the term "tantric sex" they...
If you want your love life to improve you must do something, don’t just wait and hope!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=on1Dx-BVSNI Many of you know by now that I am an advocate for couples. I want people in relationship to know that they can improve their love life. I even want to go as far as saying that if your intimate relating is not as fabulous as...
True tantric sex is messy sometimes
Does the image of these dolphins playing seem tidy to you? Not really, but it sure looks like they are having fun. To let the pleasure of sexuality show you its full beauty, you need to let your love making be messy sometimes. Fears, anger, tears, laughter, trembling,...
Lovemaking requires surrender
True lovemaking is a mutual surrender. It's when you and your partner use the pleasure of the sexual act to transport you to something higher and more vast then your usual selves. Through sex that is filled with love and allows for total let go, you can access a more...
Tantra, a way home
You are invited to join this ongoing evening class on Maui Tantra, a way home Opening to our soul’s true nature through authentic connecting For women and men, singles and couples with Niyaso Carter We are physical and spiritual beings. Connecting with one...
Don’t just have sex… make love!
Don’t just have sex… make love! Most people, when they hear the words “making love,” immediately assume it means having a sexual exchange. Have you ever really considered why that is? This description of sex is used because through the ages sex has been and still is...
Egyptian Sexual Energy and the Orgasm: To orgasm or not to orgasm, that is the question
When it comes to Tantra and the concept of using sexual energy and love-making as a path to God or the Divine, there has long been conflicting opinions as to the role of orgasms in achieving these higher states of consciousness. Many insist that the man can only...
Tantric sex and the lost Art of Touch
Touch is one of the most powerful experiences on planet earth. The very first thing that happens to us when we arrive in this world is the sensation of touch on our skin. Before that we are enveloped in warm water, that's a form of touch also, but we would not survive...