Let the boat rock a little
This quote above says it all, but how can you live it? Simply be willing to dare to rock the boat a little. As a real life experiment, for the next week, I invite you all to be a little more daring in your relating. But how might that look for you? Only you know. It...
Tantra, a way home
You are invited to join this ongoing evening class on Maui Tantra, a way home Opening to our soul’s true nature through authentic connecting For women and men, singles and couples with Niyaso Carter We are physical and spiritual beings. Connecting with one...
Mothering happens in many ways
Happy Mother's Day to all women! Whether you are mothering your own children, or the children of the world through your labours of love . Keep up the good work. The world is a better place because of you.
True tantric sex is messy sometimes
Does the image of these dolphins playing seem tidy to you? Not really, but it sure looks like they are having fun. To let the pleasure of sexuality show you its full beauty, you need to let your love making be messy sometimes. Fears, anger, tears, laughter, trembling,...
What is Tantra and why do people think it has to do with sex somehow?
Tantra was a spiritual movement in ancient India and Nepal, it was comprised of many different sects and teachings with varying practices and rituals. The common denominator was that tantrik sects, unlike other religions of the time who separated their practices from...
Do we need to protect our kids from porn?
In response to the Porn Virus article I recently posted I got the following reader comment from a young woman who grew up in the US. I think you will find the answer to the question above in her story. It shows you just how important it is to pay attention to what our...
The porn virus
An eight-year-old boy appears white-faced in the kitchen with his friend. Curious, his mother goes into his bedroom and looks at the search history on his computer. She laughs when she discovers they’ve Googled ‘boobs’. She stops laughing when she sees the search...
Lovemaking requires surrender
True lovemaking is a mutual surrender. It's when you and your partner use the pleasure of the sexual act to transport you to something higher and more vast then your usual selves. Through sex that is filled with love and allows for total let go, you can access a more...
If a woman isn’t active in lovemaking is she a “dead fish”?
Here is what a young woman had to say about it: Thoughts from a tantric love making fan During listening to Tantra, Sex for the Soul, the audio workshop by Niyaso Carter, an excerpt caught me by surprise. While driving, I listened to Niyaso’s gentle voice say: “Men,...
Sex should be effortless. True or False?
What's your gut answer to this question? "True" is what I would say. And yes it is true. However this statement comes with a side note: Most of us believe that if we fall short in the world of sex, it must be our fault, or our partner is wrong, or the relationship is...
Don’t just have sex… make love!
Don’t just have sex… make love! Most people, when they hear the words “making love,” immediately assume it means having a sexual exchange. Have you ever really considered why that is? This description of sex is used because through the ages sex has been and still is...
What does it take to be happy?
But how can we just be happy? I think that in a way we are all here on planet earth to realize, that even though we are encouraged, even programmed, to pursue happiness, we can't really do anything to make it happen. We can try and control outer life...
Rebirth 2012: What to expect
This video may be a bit out there for some of you but it is a hopeful message and therefore well worth watching click below to watch What to expect in this coming time
Free Teleseminar starts in a few hours: Tantra and a Joyful Life
Is your love life all you would like it to be? If you feel that there could be more but you don't know how to get there, come join me for this live teleseminar at no cost. This is not just for people in relationship. It is also about your love with yourself and your...
Modern day intimacy and why understanding Tantra is more important than ever!
Below some pictures of modern day intimacy ...... lol and after that some ideas of what to do about it Having coffee with friends. A day at the beach. Having dinner out with your friends. Out on an intimate date. Having a conversation with your BFF. Cheering on your...
Free teleseminar “Tantra and a joyful life” on December 12th
Hello friends, I will be offering a free teleseminar in conjunction with other wonderful teachers. I am excited to invite you to all of the seminars in this series “Awaken Your Amazing Self!" Register now: http://www.awakenyouramazingself.com Event on "Tantra and a...
Tantric sex and the lost Art of Touch
Touch is one of the most powerful experiences on planet earth. The very first thing that happens to us when we arrive in this world is the sensation of touch on our skin. Before that we are enveloped in warm water, that's a form of touch also, but we would not survive...
Tantric sex is not about indulgence
"Tantric experience means neither to be repressive nor to be indulgent. Tantric experience is possible only if you move deep into meditation, otherwise not. When you become very very still, silent, aware, alert, then only is it possible that you will know something of...
Don’t be afraid to be yourself in all your shades and colors, that is being truly tantric
What Heals, How do We Grow? by Niyaso Christine Carter Every human being is inherently good and beautiful, and even though their action may seem strangely contradictory, every being is striving toward understanding of their deeper nature and desiring to move toward...
Practice loving, do an experiment
If you are in any kind of intimate relationship, practice for a day to see the things and qualities in your partner that you want to experience, whether they are there or not. Just find a way to believe that they are there or that they can be there. Do this for a...