by Sacred Loving | Dec 3, 2009 | Tantric Wisdom with Niyaso Carter
Often when a couple is newly in love, things are great, because the partners are fresh to it, so present & full of willingness to listen, before disappointments & old habits get in the way. After the initial happiness, most couples stop experimenting and...
by Sacred Loving | Dec 2, 2009 | Tantric Wisdom with Niyaso Carter
In the last few years movies have become outrageously explicit in the sexual arena, but almost always the scenes are far off the mark in terms of depicting healthy sexuality. Same thing goes for most sex scenes in novels, as they are also misleading people, for...
by Sacred Loving | Dec 1, 2009 | Tantric Wisdom with Niyaso Carter
As a society, we’re imprinted with the belief that great sex should happen passionately, on it’s own, without any effort or communication. This explains why we’re so reluctant to work on this area of our lives, when we’re so willing to work on just about anything...
by Sacred Loving | Nov 30, 2009 | Tantric Wisdom with Niyaso Carter
Humans are biologically designed to learn appropriate actions by observing & then copying what we see. That’s how children learn, that’s how each of us has learned most of what we know. Since movies provide a strong visual imprint and they are usually the only one...
by Sacred Loving | Nov 29, 2009 | Tantric Wisdom with Niyaso Carter
Western culture lacks a healthy role model for good intimacy and sex. If you were lucky enough to have been raised by parents who truly loved each other and had a good sex life as well, that may have helped. But even then, you didn’t get to observe how they interacted...