by Sacred Loving | Dec 16, 2010 | Tantric Wisdom with Niyaso Carter
To have truly great sex you need to open your entire self, and that includes your feelings, whatever they may be. It’s impossible to open your heart selectively. You can’t open just one part of you, just your “sexy, happy self” and keep the part other aspects under...
by Sacred Loving | Dec 15, 2010 | Tantric Wisdom with Niyaso Carter
When we open sexually, vulnerable parts of us may also come out, triggering various emotions. If we don’t resist this movement of feelings then grace can open up for us. The analogy of this truth, that we must embrace our shadow side in order to transcend it, is the...
by Sacred Loving | Dec 11, 2010 | Tantric Wisdom with Niyaso Carter
(by Niyaso Carter) Deep and ecstatic sex touches us like few other things do. It takes us out of our normal, controlled way of being. It opens our breath, senses, feelings, and our heart too. This can be so lovely and beautiful, but also disturbing or exposing. When...
by Sacred Loving | Nov 26, 2010 | Tantric Wisdom with Niyaso Carter, Uncategorized
Therapist David Schnarch has wisely written of love and sex starved relationships: “Given the mediocre sex that lies behind common complaints of sexual boredom, lack of sexual desire often actually reflects good judgement. Rather than focusing on the low desire...
by Sacred Loving | Nov 22, 2010 | Tantric Wisdom with Niyaso Carter, Uncategorized
Here is an excerpt from Ian Kerner’s book “Passionista” on the topic: “Viagra and its brethren not only reinforce the same old bad habits and often recreate the same old bad sex, but also refocuse the lens more intensely on coital sex, with the...