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Tantra class on Maui this Tuesday, Aug 13th

  This is for Maui people only Hello dearest friends, There will be a Tantra class on Tuesday, August 13th at Ananda Sanctuary in Huelo at 6:30pm -9pm. RSVP is desired but not mandatory. Tantra, a way home Opening to our soul’s true nature through authentic...

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Let the boat rock a little

This quote above says it all, but how can you live it? Simply be willing to dare to rock the boat a little. As a real life experiment, for the next week, I invite you all to be a little more daring in your relating. But how might that look for you? Only you know. It...

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Mothering happens in many ways

  Happy Mother's Day to all women! Whether you are mothering your own children, or the children of the world through your labours of love . Keep up the good work. The world is a better place because of you.

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Do we need to protect our kids from porn?

In response to the Porn Virus article I recently posted I got the following reader comment from a young woman who grew up in the US. I think you will find the answer to the question above in her story. It shows you just how important it is to pay attention to what our...

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The porn virus

An eight-year-old boy appears white-faced in the kitchen with his friend. Curious, his mother goes into his bedroom and looks at the search history on his computer. She laughs when she discovers they’ve Googled ‘boobs’. She stops laughing when she sees the search...

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Sex should be effortless. True or False?

What's your gut answer to this question? "True" is what I would say. And yes it is true. However this statement comes with a side note: Most of us believe that if we fall short in the world of sex, it must be our fault, or our partner is wrong, or the relationship is...

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What does it take to be happy?

  But how can we just be happy? I think that in a way we are all here on planet earth to realize, that even though we are encouraged, even programmed, to pursue happiness, we can't really do anything to make it happen. We can try and control outer life...

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Rebirth 2012: What to expect

This video may be a bit out there for some of you but it is a hopeful message and therefore well worth watching click below to watch What to expect in this coming time  

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Practice loving, do an experiment

If you are in any kind of intimate relationship, practice for a day to see the things and qualities in your partner that you want to experience, whether they are there or not. Just find a way to believe that they are there or that they can be there. Do this for a...

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The Magic of Touch

Below I share with you an article written by Paul Carter, my ex-husband, about the power of touch. He wrote this one ages ago, after he joined me in teaching Tantra workshops, but it is not outdated, it never will be. In fact, if anything, the need for touch is bigger...

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A truly tantric message

The tantric message is in the picture to the left "Life is happening for joy, freedom and growth, in that order." a quote from Abraham The good news is that we have the ability to find joy, freedom and growth in any situation. Being willing to live and engage life...

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From sex addiction to tantric sex

We all want to feel good and I firmly believe that it is our birthright to feel well. We all came here to planet earth to feel good and excited and to create a fun life for ourselves. Even though the Buddha said life is suffering and I know exactly what he means and I...

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