The tantric message is in the picture to the left
“Life is happening for joy, freedom and growth, in that order.”
a quote from Abraham
The good news is that we have the ability to find joy, freedom and growth in any situation. Being willing to live and engage life fully, no matter what is going on, is the true meaning of Tantra.
Tantric sex requires this total engagement and there is no other area of life where more “things” bubble up no matter how hard we may try to control the situation. Be willing to engage with all that comes up in you when you are intimate with someone and don’t judge any of it. Don’t judge what comes up for you or for your partner. Engage with all of it with love and big belly full of compassion and acceptance.