What makes sex sacred? One idea is that our genitals have consciousness; that the penis and the vagina can be healers of our entire beings. For this healing potential to be realized, I need to introduce a whole new concept of lovemaking to you, one that focuses on relaxing and letting go.
Ours has become quite an orgasm-crazed society. Everyone is seeking more, better, and longer orgasms. I rather think it needs to be the other way around: when we love more, eventually the orgasms will be phenomenal, but you may need to let go of looking for orgasm or focusing only on the mechanics of sex and instead focus more on the sensations, feelings, and the connection between you and your lover.
Excerpted from “Sex for the Soul,” an Audio Home Study Course on Tantric Sex
