I’m well aware that in my last post I encouraged you to allow feelings to come up during loveplay and lovemaking rather then clamping them down when they want to bubble up in order to come to new and fabulous states of pleasure and intimacy, but that I gave very little time and attention to what to do when those feelings actually do come up. I know that for people with unresolved trauma issues it’s not enough to just say: “Let the feelings come up.” These emotions can feel overwhelming and no fun at all and you may need support in learning how to negotiate them and so does your partner if you have one. My next post will give you more to work with. For now just know that the good news is, our bodies, hearts and souls have an inbuilt compass and it is guiding us to our fully healed, blossomed, awakened self. The more you can slow down and actually listen to your inner compass the better. So for now remember, simple is right and slow is better. Be easy about it. All is well.
How To Increase Intimacy
People have this huge misconception of how to increase intimacy. They believe and practice what they see in the movies or magazines hoping they will have a life of more intimacy and pleasure. In this podcast, renowned teacher Niyaso Carter explains what Tantra and intimacy really are. She emphasized the importance of taking time. And that asking questions about how to increase intimacy can lead you to the real path to the most amazing sex.