In the sexual excitement of our society, women are expected now to have multiple orgasms with possible ejaculation, just like it’s now fashionable for men to be able to have non ejaculatory multiple orgasms. These things do exist & are wonderful (I’ll talk more about them a little later) but please don’t make them the goal; otherwise, it would be called making orgasm instead of making love…
People of both genders feel pressured to perform for each other. Because of this performance oriented sex, many people don’t know the true wonders of making love. They’re too busy trying to be normal or they don’t feel permission to take the time to discover another way. They usually don’t know about the subtle flavors, nuances and relaxed, effortless still places that truly intimate devotional sex offers.
Excerpted from “Sex for the Soul,” an Audio Home Study Course on Tantric Sex