My favorite teacher, Barry Long, put it quite bluntly, “To learn to make divine love, put the penis in the vagina frequently.” Just like you would sit down to meditate or pray as your individual spiritual practice, make it your spiritual practice together to enter a sexual embrace and discover more love together. If you relax deeply enough, if you allow for the possibility, your bodies and hearts will teach you how to do it.
If you’re in a relationship where making love often seems easier said then done, for whatever reason, hang in there. I am going to share with you some specific suggestions that’ll make it possible without anyone having to compromise the truth of their body, their heart, or their spirit in any way. If you don’t want to wait, click on the link below to check out Sex for the Soul, the source I bring you all this material from.
Excerpted from “Sex for the Soul,” an Audio Home Study Course on Tantric Sex