Try something new when you next make love, something that you imagine will help you get in the direction of pleasure and so much more. It’s all in the willingness to try something new. Your body knows, your heart is wise, divine lovemaking is in your blueprint. Make something up. Trust yourself.
If you are looking for ideas what new things to try you can check out my audio course
“Tantra, Sex for the Soul” https://sacredloving.net/SacredSexStore_pages/Audio5CDs.html