A survey printed in Oprah magazine revealed that 44% of men say their female partner always has an orgasm during sex, but only 29% percent of women say they do. This tells us women are so anxious to please their partners, they don’t always feel free to tell the truth. It also indicates that men are anxious to please their partners, that they are happy to believe it when it appears that she did have one…
Men will be tempted to make their women feel like they should come & that they are deficient if they don’t. This shuts down constructive communication very quickly. The same is true if the woman makes her man’s sexual performance wrong in any way. Let go of having an agenda when you make love, especially that of orgasm. Talk to each other, discover what feels good & learn how to make more love together.
Excerpted from “Sex for the Soul,” an Audio Home Study Course on Tantric Sex