If a penis is fueled by the heart’s wishes and not the mind’s fantasies, it has true wisdom. It can intuit the vagina’s needs and wishes. It has the ability to heal, and open both you and your partner to more love.
I encourage you to try a much slower way of lovemaking and see what happens. For you, it may be a totally new approach to sex and so it may take a little time to reap the benefits.
You may need to try these new techniques out for a little while (that I have been sharing with you) before you start experiencing these fabulous, luscious feelings of relaxed, vibrant pleasure and joy… but hang in there, it’s so worth it!
Excerpted from “Sex for the Soul,” an Audio Home Study Course on Tantric Sex