I’m guessing that most of you have heard of female ejaculation, if not experienced it. Still there seems to be a bit of confusion about what it really is and what it really means. I was speaking to a journalist from Germany and she sincerely was under the misconception that learning Tantra meant that a woman needed to experience this phenomena. Once again, female ejaculation is a biological function, that’s it. It can go along with some really great feelings of let go, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that a divine connection is being made. Female ejaculation is the emission of a clear odorless liquid from the yoni (vagina), that can be confused with pee, some women think they peed by mistake when they first experience it. Female ejaculation happens to some women spontaneously during arousal with or without intercourse, some women can learn to experience it with correct G-spot stimulation. Certainly seeking to experience this phenomena is not necessary. I would much rather spend my time practicing good communication skills and fostering intimacy in my relationship and sex life. Then ejaculation may happen or it may not but it is not important because I’ll be right where I want to be, connected, loving, trusting, relaxed and happy.
How To Increase Intimacy
People have this huge misconception of how to increase intimacy. They believe and practice what they see in the movies or magazines hoping they will have a life of more intimacy and pleasure. In this podcast, renowned teacher Niyaso Carter explains what Tantra and intimacy really are. She emphasized the importance of taking time. And that asking questions about how to increase intimacy can lead you to the real path to the most amazing sex.